Sometimes i feel that the only attempt to please anyone is an act as foolish as it can be. For how long and to what extent can we fore go our happiness for pleasing others? I don't say that one should become selfish but always listening to what others feel and think is right for you , is a sure shot formula for failure.
I am really not bothered if any reader doesn't agree with me. of course most people feel that one should listen and pay heed to what others have to say coz after all we live in a society where its very important to follow the rule of coexistence. Alright then good for you. Keep listening to the world and the world will put all hands together to ruin you and shatter your very existence. Listen to others but follow your mind and heart. Its always so very important to not to let go of your individuality. It is so very essential to be happy and take responsibility for ones actions and decisions and even of ones own failures. You may end up being wrong once but believe me we all learn from our errors and its certain that sooner or later we will get what we want, hope for or desire to get. Others have no idea what goes inside us. No one can know, no matter how much one claims to know coz its something even we need time to figure out. In our attempt to please the world we are just neglecting our own selves .even if it brings us happiness for a while we will land up becoming the dupe of every nonentity in our lives. if u still disagree then just ponder over every action u did in an attempt to please anyone. Cmon do it just now and u will find the answer.
Sunday, December 2, 2007
Monday, September 24, 2007
Dont need a title!
Its been so long i neglected my blog. Infact i neglected myself all this while. Just thought before i am deprived of my blogspace on account of not using it its better i write something. Something thats breaks my indolence. Something that wakes me up from my slumber. Something that shows me a direction. Something that navigates my way through the present situation and testifies that there is some pleasentness about life. Thought i should scribble something..what if it carries no meaning...what s the big deal if people find it poppycock..whatif noone bothers to read..no matter what!.atleast the words would be mine. Thats something no one can deprive me of!
Writing always brings so much relief.. I dont care even if its egregious. Just dragging a few expressions out from the canopy of abstraction gives a sense of satisfaction that i exist. That there within me lies a being who lives. Who thinks. who feels. who is happy when others are happy. who feels guilty at smiling when some ones in dolour.who has this urge of doing some little thing to light up someones life. who feels that life has no meaning if its for our selves.
Writing is also a means of realising oneself. Its meditation, introspection, insight..its evryhting..everything one needs to find out. ..to discover. And in the process i find my self..if not today..mayb tmmrw!
Writing always brings so much relief.. I dont care even if its egregious. Just dragging a few expressions out from the canopy of abstraction gives a sense of satisfaction that i exist. That there within me lies a being who lives. Who thinks. who feels. who is happy when others are happy. who feels guilty at smiling when some ones in dolour.who has this urge of doing some little thing to light up someones life. who feels that life has no meaning if its for our selves.
Writing is also a means of realising oneself. Its meditation, introspection, insight..its evryhting..everything one needs to find out. ..to discover. And in the process i find my self..if not today..mayb tmmrw!
Monday, June 11, 2007
The Kite Runner
Recently i finished reading the Kite Runner by Khaled Huseinni....Amazing book! I must admit that it has been after a long time that a book has cast so much of an impression on me. Almost indelible..
The story is full of pathos...and is so intricately reflective of the life and the problems simple ppl have to face because of the existence and continuous reinforcement of these artificially created...redundant barriers of caste, class, religion and race. The story , set up in Afganistan, depicts the lives of two boys..age mates..brought up together...one a pashtun and the other a hazara . How their lives are so much different and the differences attributed to who they are.
One living a comfortable life until the emergence of the Taliban while the other being deprived of the same and subjected to continuous insults , humiliation , mortification, dishonor and even death.
The book just left me all dazed with tears in my eyes as to why this ever happened. Why do people though educated and well brought up let such injustice happen. Why cant the human race understand that life needs to be lived happily. What is this fight for? Who is going to carry these lands to his grave? Which religion empowers man with the right to deprive others of their right to live? What satisfaction does man get in ruining someones peace and satisfaction?
I wish we had some answers to these questions.
The story is full of pathos...and is so intricately reflective of the life and the problems simple ppl have to face because of the existence and continuous reinforcement of these artificially created...redundant barriers of caste, class, religion and race. The story , set up in Afganistan, depicts the lives of two boys..age mates..brought up together...one a pashtun and the other a hazara . How their lives are so much different and the differences attributed to who they are.
One living a comfortable life until the emergence of the Taliban while the other being deprived of the same and subjected to continuous insults , humiliation , mortification, dishonor and even death.
The book just left me all dazed with tears in my eyes as to why this ever happened. Why do people though educated and well brought up let such injustice happen. Why cant the human race understand that life needs to be lived happily. What is this fight for? Who is going to carry these lands to his grave? Which religion empowers man with the right to deprive others of their right to live? What satisfaction does man get in ruining someones peace and satisfaction?
I wish we had some answers to these questions.
Tuesday, May 8, 2007
Route to Happiness
"Happiness is an occasional episode in a life full of pains."
Shakespeare has been so true with this. It's no doubt a rare phenomena. Its just that our entire life we keep looking for it but don't get it. Actually we dont even look for it. We just sit back and expect it to come to us , not understanding the precariousness it comes with.
The one and the only way to get it is to find it. And if u can't then invent it. Dig it. Explore it. Let it debouch from the depths of your being. Give it a shot ! and u will find it somwhere very close to yourself. Somewhere at a place where u had never expected it. Concealed somewhere very close to you.
Once you find it. keep it. Do not let it estrange your mind and heart. Allow it to permeate within yourself. Feel it penetrating within. Strongly hold this winsome spectacle and let it douche out all worries , troubles and pathos. Give it sometime. allow it to spring clean ur mind and soul and turn them impeccable.
Then see ur world changing. From sordid to splendid. From terrible to terrific....and enjoy the transformation ...relish the magnificance from the vantage you love.
Shakespeare has been so true with this. It's no doubt a rare phenomena. Its just that our entire life we keep looking for it but don't get it. Actually we dont even look for it. We just sit back and expect it to come to us , not understanding the precariousness it comes with.
The one and the only way to get it is to find it. And if u can't then invent it. Dig it. Explore it. Let it debouch from the depths of your being. Give it a shot ! and u will find it somwhere very close to yourself. Somewhere at a place where u had never expected it. Concealed somewhere very close to you.
Once you find it. keep it. Do not let it estrange your mind and heart. Allow it to permeate within yourself. Feel it penetrating within. Strongly hold this winsome spectacle and let it douche out all worries , troubles and pathos. Give it sometime. allow it to spring clean ur mind and soul and turn them impeccable.
Then see ur world changing. From sordid to splendid. From terrible to terrific....and enjoy the transformation ...relish the magnificance from the vantage you love.
Monday, April 2, 2007
Strange feeling!
Well the last month's blog entry forced my friends to comment that it was far less interesting than the entries i wrote to express my feelings!!...but to tell u the truth all feelings cannot b expressed..atleast not like this!! and neither is it an easy job...feel.. it takes a lot of guts.To some your feelings may even sound a bit pseudo social...Whatever may b said about it..it makes not much of a diffence atleast to me..As i feel that human emotins and feelings are never static. They keep changing according to time and situation..and in most cases we seem to have absolutely no control over them. and to assume that our feelings for others do not change or are not supposed to change is like putting ones self on the conveyor belt and not expecting any sensations!What is then imperative here is to have some knowledge of human psychology and try to understand the strange feelings that other people undergo....and in certain other cases not to b over assuming .
Its very true that expressing ones feelings, desires and emotions can b very scathing at times..but lets not try to find or see a treeline everywhere and in every situation and become to conclusive about things said or done to us..I guess our life in itself is a learning experience and there is so much that we learn and discover about ourselves each day...and..if that happens with us..lets not forget it happens with others too..So lets stop asking the why and how of every darned thing , comment or remark considering it as a sharpnel on ourselves .
Lets try to be at peace with ourselves and let the others be what they are...and if they cant let you be what u are then chuck them!!
Its very true that expressing ones feelings, desires and emotions can b very scathing at times..but lets not try to find or see a treeline everywhere and in every situation and become to conclusive about things said or done to us..I guess our life in itself is a learning experience and there is so much that we learn and discover about ourselves each day...and..if that happens with us..lets not forget it happens with others too..So lets stop asking the why and how of every darned thing , comment or remark considering it as a sharpnel on ourselves .
Lets try to be at peace with ourselves and let the others be what they are...and if they cant let you be what u are then chuck them!!
Monday, March 12, 2007
Time Machine
Very often the idea of time traveling invades my mind and thoughts. At one point of time it became such untenable obsession that even my catnaps were replete with waggish dreams of my space excursion. After reading this book, whose author has long abandoned my memory,’ The time travelers wife’, I was all the more inspired! So to dabble my knowledge over the description of Einstein's paradox I would like to share something with the ones interested.
Before i tell you about it one must know that traveling in a space ship, apart from the adventure quotient, also provides its users with an additional benefit. Well so to say, entering into the scuttle assures that anyone shuttling through space is definitely going to age at a retarded pace in comparison to his earthly sibling!( That’s why time travel) Now before my information and understanding escapes through the smokestack let me type it down.
Einstein’s paradox-
Well Einstein used 2 clocks for his experiment. One got the esteemed opportunity to time travel at about 3*100000000 m/sec i.e. the lightening speed. (Oh! I am so jealous, I can only sit back and dream while the clock even does it!). After many years when the spaceship landed in the earths sacred premises it was discovered that the clock on it had traveled slowly in comparison to its not -so –fortunate counterpart.
Conclusion- Time moves slowly when objects are in motion.
The same was repeated on earthly twins. (Wish I had a twin sister! That would accelerate my chances of being a part of the experiment…boohoo!) At the end of the travel, the interstellar sibling was younger adding to the envy and anxiety of his relative on earth.
The paradox exists because according to the laws of physics the one on earth should have been making the other go green with envy because the earth is also in motion, but as a matter of fact it happened the other way round!!!
Conclusion- I still haven’t traveled through time! I hate Einstein!
Before i tell you about it one must know that traveling in a space ship, apart from the adventure quotient, also provides its users with an additional benefit. Well so to say, entering into the scuttle assures that anyone shuttling through space is definitely going to age at a retarded pace in comparison to his earthly sibling!( That’s why time travel) Now before my information and understanding escapes through the smokestack let me type it down.
Einstein’s paradox-
Well Einstein used 2 clocks for his experiment. One got the esteemed opportunity to time travel at about 3*100000000 m/sec i.e. the lightening speed. (Oh! I am so jealous, I can only sit back and dream while the clock even does it!). After many years when the spaceship landed in the earths sacred premises it was discovered that the clock on it had traveled slowly in comparison to its not -so –fortunate counterpart.
Conclusion- Time moves slowly when objects are in motion.
The same was repeated on earthly twins. (Wish I had a twin sister! That would accelerate my chances of being a part of the experiment…boohoo!) At the end of the travel, the interstellar sibling was younger adding to the envy and anxiety of his relative on earth.
The paradox exists because according to the laws of physics the one on earth should have been making the other go green with envy because the earth is also in motion, but as a matter of fact it happened the other way round!!!
Conclusion- I still haven’t traveled through time! I hate Einstein!
Sunday, February 18, 2007
Dare to dream??
Well last night i had a strange dream..and i found myself transported to completely different place..the place i had literally never dreamt of in my wildest of dreams!..Gosh as ever i am trying to confuse you..but lemme tell u the truth..this was darned exciting..i found myself at a birthday bash.whose?? i have no idea! where?? i dunno!..and u dare not ask me how! i already told you that!..i closed my eyes and scuttled my way thorough the night to reach the unknown place...Nevertheless the dream sounded wasteful..but it did coax my imagination to a point.What the hell inspired such a dream..Afterall i hadn't been thinking of attending one the whole day.infact i have not attended one in weeks now!(maybe here lies the point!)
I read a book on dream analysis which vividly states that dreams are the manifestations of our repressed feelings and emotions..and like on most issues i clearly agree on this one too...but sometimes these so called manifestations are really revealing..and one tends to end up completely embarrassed of ones own thought process..take for instance once my friend was really upset over something and when asked repeatedly she dabbled the reason..she had a nightmare! now am sure u wud like to know what it was...hmmm..she said the whole night she was surrounded my snakes and she kept running to save herself and was sure she wasn't going to s successful in escaping the situation..and felt suffocated in the dream. and all the while she was conscious that she had been dreaming but just cud'n manage to snap open her eyes. and when she finally did the same she found herself sweating profusely as if it had been real!
Well my prior knowledge hinted that dreaming about snakes was reflective of an urge for sex and when i gave this explanation she was flabbergasted and assured that this was never an idea on her mind.
I just laughed over the issue and was assured that it wasn't just possible to interpret different dreams experienced by different people on the basis of a single yardstick!...now what attending a birthday bash of someone unknown would mean is yet to be inferred by me!
I read a book on dream analysis which vividly states that dreams are the manifestations of our repressed feelings and emotions..and like on most issues i clearly agree on this one too...but sometimes these so called manifestations are really revealing..and one tends to end up completely embarrassed of ones own thought process..take for instance once my friend was really upset over something and when asked repeatedly she dabbled the reason..she had a nightmare! now am sure u wud like to know what it was...hmmm..she said the whole night she was surrounded my snakes and she kept running to save herself and was sure she wasn't going to s successful in escaping the situation..and felt suffocated in the dream. and all the while she was conscious that she had been dreaming but just cud'n manage to snap open her eyes. and when she finally did the same she found herself sweating profusely as if it had been real!
Well my prior knowledge hinted that dreaming about snakes was reflective of an urge for sex and when i gave this explanation she was flabbergasted and assured that this was never an idea on her mind.
I just laughed over the issue and was assured that it wasn't just possible to interpret different dreams experienced by different people on the basis of a single yardstick!...now what attending a birthday bash of someone unknown would mean is yet to be inferred by me!
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